Wednesday, June 12, 2019

When Life Throws A Curve Ball

OUCH ! Feel It.Grieve It.Be kind To Yourself
Take tiny steps forward
Remember: Fear and Doubt is part of the  Process
So you gotta have FAITH.

Life likes to throw you curve balls when you least expect it.Just remember life doesn't give you something you can't handle.Have Faith.It will pass.Sometimes in life everything goes smoothly,And sometimes unexpected happens,The important thing is knowing how to turn problems into opportunities.We all have our own problems that we need to deal with.No one is perfect.Take it one day at a time. Instead of asking why is this happening to me? Ask yourself,What is this teaching me?
And what can I learn from this to become better.Appreciate what life is teaching you because that's going to help you along the way.We were given a gift and that is life itself.Everyday is a blessing in disguise.
Everyday you get 24 Hours, 1,400 Minutes , 86,400 Seconds .This time is Nonrefundable and Non-renewable.Be very selective on how you use your time.Spending in Non-Educational TV,Going out Excessively,To much Social media,Complaining Or Investing in Networking,Learning a Skill,Reading a book,Building an Income Source.So use your time wisely.Once it's gone,you don't get it back.
Some People want it to happen,Some wish it would happen,Others make it happen.(-Michael Jordan)
Anything is possible.You can achieve whatever it is that you call your true passion.If it's important enough to you,you'll find a way to make it work.Stick to one thing and try your best to be the very best at it.You got this! 💥 Aspire to insure before you expire 💥
What I'm trying to explain is When you do something new first people laugh at you,Then they challenge you,then they appreciate you,Then they set you as an Example.
Haters are going to hate.They always critique at first.Don't worry about what they think of you.Don't worry about what other people are doing.It's none of their business and it's none of their business.They're just pushing their own insecurities onto you because they wish they had the courage to do it themselves.Keep doing you.They'll continue to watch while you continue to do.
    
Growth Vs Fixed Mindset
 
GROWTH MINDSET                                      
 "Failure is an opportunity to grow"                                 
 "I can learn to do anything I want"                                       
 "Challenges help me to grow"                                             
 " I like to try new things"                                                     
 "I'm inspired by the success of others"                                   
 "Feedback is constructive"                                               

FIXED MINDSET
 "Failure is the limit of my abilities"
 "I'm either good at it or I'm not"   
 "I don't like to be challenges"
 "I stick to what I know"
 "When I'm frustrated,I give up"
 "Feedback and criticism are personal

Get your mind right.The way you see life determines everything.If you're not in a good place,this will affect everything everything else in your life.It affects your mood,your motivation,the decisions you make,the energy you put out,the things you say,the things you feel,etc.It all starts from within and works it's way out.Be aware of this so you can change your mindset for the better.Putting the blame on others doesn't solve the real problem and sometimes that problem is you.
Everyone has their own story.....And different way of telling their story..Some are like A Safety Box,If you don't know the password? You don't deserve their story.They will only tell their story to the people that they trust.Some are like A Message in the Bottle,They tell their story on the internet....Anonymously,No one knows their real identity,On social media:Long caption with a
fake-name account,Sometimes,people don't know or even don't care,Hence their story will remain unknown or will be forgotten :(  Some are like A Peeled Onion, the more you know about their story,the sadder you get.Their stories are mostly,sad stories...Share their story little by little,afraid if it'll be too much for those who listen...Honestly, They've been dying to tell someone about their story,But they are afraid of being judged by others :( and Some are like A Jack in the Box :)

A conversation between a Master and his student
Master : A fight is going on inside me....It's a terrible fight and it is between two Wolves.One is Evil.He is Anger , Envy , Sorrow , Regret , Greed , Arrogance , Self-Pity , Guilt , Resentment , Inferiority , Lies , False Pride,Superiority.......The other is Good .He is Joy, Peace , Love , Hope , Serenity , Humility , Kindness , Benevolence , Empathy , Generosity , Truth ,Compassion....and Faith.
The same fight is going on inside you.And inside every other person , too.
Student : Which wolf will win? Master!
Master : The one you feed.

Moral: We all go through it each and everyday....So make sure that you feed the right one.

Remember,most of your stress comes from the way you respond,not the way life is.Adjust your attitude,and all the extra stress is gone.
                                                                           
                                                                           
                                                                           
                                                                           
                    

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