Did You Ever THOUGHT ?

Today I am gonna discuss about just a basic thought that I think along with me many people also have but they don't realize the reason behind it.So let's explore and dig in deeper to find the reason!

Did you ever realized in your life that at first we use to go to first and then second and eventually we did not even realize that we completed our class 10th,12th boards.It's just like,we have just now only joined school.At once it completed with a couple of time.The big question is HOW?

Another scenario,Did you hear anytime your parents telling,"pata hi nhi chala bacche kab badhe hogaye"(Translation -We hardly realized,when our children have grown up so big and older).Even I heard my elder brother telling,"college ke 4 saal pata hi nhi chala kab khatam hogaye"(Translation - I hardly realized when my college,my engineering four years got completed,it's just like a fraction,a couple of time).Old people telling,"Mere 70-80 saal ki zindigi ek pal me hi nikal gayi"(Translation - My 70-80 years of life completed just in a moment)They all mean the same that life is passing away in the twinkling of an eye with out even realization to us.

These are just Ironical,WHY?

Because every day we work so hard,we go to school/college,we eat,we bath,we fight,we drive,we laugh,we sleep.But still after 10-15 years we fell like nothing has happened.Like everything went very fast.Before letting you guys to know the reason.........the magic...........the secret behind this thought process,I want you guys to answer me a couple of questions:

1.What your mother has cooked 3 days before?

2.Which junk food or food from outside you have ordered the last time?

3.A special question to all the boys,3 days before how many boys you have talked face-to-face and how many girls you have talked face-to-face?Similarly my dear lovely girls,3 days before how many boys you have talked face-to-face and how many girls you have talked face-to-face?(exact count in numbers)

Probably majority of you might have answered the 2nd or 3rd question.Because they are unique.As everyday our mom cooks food so daily the routine is same;but suddenly if we eat something from outside we remember it because it is something different that our daily routine.(Like for instance,I ate momos last Wednesday😁).Similarly daily I talk with girls but suddenly when I talk with boys it's different than what I do.(just take for instance,I talked today with Pooja(in case of boys),I talked with Sunil(in case of girls)....these names are just for reference,an example..may be something.....in your case😅)

Our mind is just like Thanos. It is very clever and smart.It forms a pattern.A routine like for a student go to school/college,comeback,sleep,eat,tution,homework,study,sleep again get up morning continues for 10-12 years and so on........... Similarly mother gets up,cooks food,looks after children,husband and household chores,office works and........similarly father....and the pattern goes on.Once a pattern is formed then our mind copy's it and paste's it ,copy-paste,copy-paste.......continues.But if we encounter a unique thing then our mind pattern/loop breaks.Just take the example of an engineering student whose 4 years completed/passed away.If you ask them which year of engineering is most memorable?Majority of people will tell first year because our life pattern breaks;class 12th boards,JEE Mains/Advanced....and in 1st year we get hostel life,mess food,new friends,driving license,girlfriend/boyfriend,bunking classes....even negative sides are also there (smoking,alcohol) but lets not focus over there...Always look into the positive side...then the perspective to see life will also change....Ok let's come back to our main point....But when it repeats in 2nd or 3rd or 4th years then we don't get more memories. 

MORAL:We all have one life,then from now,10-15,50-100 years we shouldn't think like "we didn't realize how these many years passed away"We want our life's every moment to live fully.Learn something,make memories that we remember always.So try to break this pattern.So this pattern breaks by some small-small things,like in-short by exploring new domains like go and cook food one day,instead of playing pubg go and play football,getup early and surprise your family by going for a morning walk,instead of liking your neighbour friend's photo in instagram go and meet him and come.Start learning a new course like photography,Take the first step.

One of my friend what she is to do is take the camera to all the places,and capture the good moments and record it.After four years she has 368GB of material memes,videos,photos.Similarly you can also write down in diaries(I know no one writes in this present digital and modern world) or take photos,voice recordings.......so on.You won't be realizing now,but you will definitely realize after four years.Also remember not just capturing every moment but try to live every moment enjoy it to the fullest!

A long life may not be good enough,but a good life is long enough.

So what are you gonna try new today tell me in the comment section below.